We all look forward to being in long lasting relationships, but the sad reality is most of our relationships do not last as long as we hope. So how do we get over men who we thought were in the relationship for the long haul? I for one have been in a position to have to get over a breakup, not once but a couple of times.  If you happen to have gotten your heart broken recently, either you were dumped, cheated on or things just did not work out, here a couple of ways you can get over your Ex like an OG.

GET CLOSURE

It is important for your sanity to get adequate amount of closure when leaving any relationship, because it helps you answer questions like; what could I have done differently, is it my fault. So have a conversation with your ex, it might be hard but it is necessary for your healing.

LET THE TEARS ROLL

Confusing yeah? Well I have learnt that the quickest way to overcome a terrible feeling is by letting go completely. Whenever you decide to shed the breakup tears, make sure you do so in private in order to maintain your OG status.

GIVE YOURSELF A COUPLE DAYS

One shitty thing about feelings is that although they are abstract we kind of feel them, just at our chest area. So if you have a 9 to 5 you might have to call in sick, because you need a little time to breathe and trust me a day or two in bed doing nothing helps clear your head.

TALK ABOUT IT

Never keep the details of your breakup to yourself, share with trusted close friends.  Close friends who spent time around you and your ex during the relationship always know exactly what to say.

LET GO

I am a strong believer in destiny, so if you feel like you just lost the “love of your life” know that if he or she is truly the love of your life they would still be with you and it is important that you let go.

I know getting over a breakup is harder than it sounds but all these have worked out for me in the past and I am sure would help to get over your ex in a matter of days.

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